Things We Lost in Corona



It has now been nearly nine months since we first heard of the corona virus, Covid-19. I, for one, thought by now we would have a clearer picture of what is to come. After words such lockdown, social distancing, quarantine, masks, disposable gloves have become the norm. I expected we can get out of our homes, return to work, have a semblance of a normal life.

Everyone keeps talking about the "new" normal. What does that even mean? I do not want a new normal, I enjoyed all that my life had to offer pre-Covid. I will remain loyal to my life and grateful for all I had. I keep thinking of all that we lost in Corona.

This is my list:

1. Smiles

2. Hugs

3. Kisses

4. Lipstick

5. Freedom of movement

6. Safety

7. Internal peace

8. Concerts

9. Cinema

10. Team sports

11. Parties

12. Weddings

13. Celebrations

14. Stress free outings

15. Take away coffee

16. Amusement parks

17. Theater

18. Airplanes

19. Travel

20. Museums

21. Clubs/Bars

22. Gyms

23. Hotel stays

24. Ferry boat rides

25. School/college as we want it

26. Add your own here..............

Here is what I have learned: This existence is not one I aspire to, while I enjoyed being less crazy busy, I do not wish this "new" normal to become my "normal". I will keep the faith that soon this too shall be over. We will all hug, dance together, clink glasses, walk our children into school, get on a plane and discover new adventures again. We will share beautiful moments in close proximity and make new memories that do not involve a sanitizer and mask. In the meantime, let us keep reminding ourselves this is not our life and this is not the new "normal".

Comments

  1. nykhalilSeptember 8, 2020 at 8:31 PM

    Amen. Thirty years of Adult life "normal" flipped upside down, in few months, is not fun. Love the list

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